Comments for Together We Bond http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com You are not alone We are there and therefore Together we Bond Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:03:59 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Need Help by Robin Horton http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5799 Robin Horton Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:03:59 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5799 It is not just Indian women that Indian men abuse and use. I am an American citizen and married a man from Punjab. Only to learn years later that I was his only way to become legal in the U.S. by applying based on marriage to a USC. The 245i just happened to come available and he forced me in duress, using my kind heart and good nature with his family's sob stories. I should have seen the signs, but I married and tried to make a go of it. I have left him several times but he can be so kind, convincing, and always apologetic for his abuses. After 2 years of physical abuse and fear I stood up, then the abuse changed to financial and emotiona. I gave birth to a very sickly child and I was forced to be a stay at home mother and care for our son. I found out recently that the person I married and have recently divorced is not real. He used a fraudulent name and date of birth to enter this country illegally. If anyone here can help me track his identity in India, Punjab my son and I would be forever appreciative. He has sexaully assaulted my daughter from a previous marriage, harmed his own son and for what he has done to me that I will let God decide. My concern is for the safety of both my children more importantly our six year old son. He has threatened me repeatedly to abduct him to India. My country has no jurisdiction in India and the Indian Government has told me "That they would not honor an American Custody Order, Either parent has a God given right to return to India and rasie their child." Our son is still very sickly and will be all his life. My own State Dept. say "No child ever abducted to India has been recovered without parental agreement." Please Help ME. If I can link him to his real identity I can get him prosecuted and put in jail where men like him belong. His mother applied for fraudulent political asylum and I didn't even know it until we were married 2 years. Everything about him has turned out to be a LIE. There are days I can barely get out of bed. How could I have been so stupid. My stupidty has placed both my children in harm. There is little justice in this country. If the cost of prosection is to great or they must expend to much effort to prosecute it does not happen. I beg of anyone to help us. I can be reached at 717-761-3547 or email me at robinhorton1962@yahoo.com He went to college for one year in Bangalore but I do not know which college. It is not just Indian women that Indian men abuse and use. I am an American citizen and married a man from Punjab. Only to learn years later that I was his only way to become legal in the U.S. by applying based on marriage to a USC. The 245i just happened to come available and he forced me in duress, using my kind heart and good nature with his family’s sob stories.

I should have seen the signs, but I married and tried to make a go of it. I have left him several times but he can be so kind, convincing, and always apologetic for his abuses. After 2 years of physical abuse and fear I stood up, then the abuse changed to financial and emotiona. I gave birth to a very sickly child and I was forced to be a stay at home mother and care for our son.

I found out recently that the person I married and have recently divorced is not real. He used a fraudulent name and date of birth to enter this country illegally. If anyone here can help me track his identity in India, Punjab my son and I would be forever appreciative.

He has sexaully assaulted my daughter from a previous marriage, harmed his own son and for what he has done to me that I will let God decide. My concern is for the safety of both my children more importantly our six year old son. He has threatened me repeatedly to abduct him to India. My country has no jurisdiction in India and the Indian Government has told me “That they would not honor an American Custody Order, Either parent has a God given right to return to India and rasie their child.” Our son is still very sickly and will be all his life. My own State Dept. say “No child ever abducted to India has been recovered without parental agreement.” Please Help ME.

If I can link him to his real identity I can get him prosecuted and put in jail where men like him belong. His mother applied for fraudulent political asylum and I didn’t even know it until we were married 2 years. Everything about him has turned out to be a LIE.

There are days I can barely get out of bed. How could I have been so stupid. My stupidty has placed both my children in harm. There is little justice in this country. If the cost of prosection is to great or they must expend to much effort to prosecute it does not happen. I beg of anyone to help us.

I can be reached at 717-761-3547 or email me at robinhorton1962@yahoo.com

He went to college for one year in Bangalore but I do not know which college.

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]]> Comment on Volunteers by RAM http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/divorced-women/#comment-5604 RAM Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:12:08 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/divorced-women/#comment-5604 hello sir I am ram. here is my question i have one sister we done marriage according to indian tradintion. My brother in law is us h1b visa holder he dont want to take my sister to us and his famiy numbers are demanding so much of money but we are not in a postion so those of reasons he did not want to take her to us. Now recently we filed a case 498a on him and his family nos i want to cancel his us visa is its possible and how it will be please explain me the process of that and i want to send some court papers to that visa holder how can i get his address please explain me thanking you hello sir

I am ram. here is my question i have one sister we done marriage according to indian tradintion. My brother in law is us h1b visa holder he dont want to take my sister to us and his famiy numbers are demanding so much of money but we are not in a postion so those of reasons he did not want to take her to us. Now recently we filed a case 498a on him and his family nos i want to cancel his us visa is its possible and how it will be please explain me the process of that and i want to send some court papers to that visa holder how can i get his address please explain me
thanking you

]]> Comment on Need Help by RAM http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5603 RAM Mon, 16 Feb 2009 08:59:39 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5603 hello sir I am ram. here is my question i have one sister we done marriage according to indian tradintion. My brother in law is us h1b visa holder he dont want to take my sister to us and his famiy numbers are demanding so much of money but we are not in a postion so those of reasons he did not want to take her to us. Now recently we filed a case 498a on him and his family nos i want to cancel his us visa is its possible and how it will be please explain me the process of that and i want to send some court papers to that visa holder how can i get his address please explain me thanking you hello sir

I am ram. here is my question i have one sister we done marriage according to indian tradintion. My brother in law is us h1b visa holder he dont want to take my sister to us and his famiy numbers are demanding so much of money but we are not in a postion so those of reasons he did not want to take her to us. Now recently we filed a case 498a on him and his family nos i want to cancel his us visa is its possible and how it will be please explain me the process of that and i want to send some court papers to that visa holder how can i get his address please explain me
thanking you

]]> Comment on A Prayer–Part 1 by Prakruti http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/a-prayer-part-1/#comment-5514 Prakruti Sat, 17 Jan 2009 07:18:23 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/a-prayer-part-1/#comment-5514 Thanks for the comment Aarti... Yes, life is all about courage.. we have to keep that intact...even when you do not need it!! Thanks for the comment Aarti… Yes, life is all about courage.. we have to keep that intact…even when you do not need it!!

]]> Comment on My anecdote by anu http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/22/my-anecdote/#comment-5405 anu Sun, 21 Dec 2008 12:57:30 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/22/my-anecdote/#comment-5405 You got out of this hell in time. There are women who face a life time of abuse because the thought of divorce scares them, and maybe they have no place to go. I;m glad you did...at least you can put your past behind you and start living again...God bless you. You got out of this hell in time. There are women who face a life time of abuse because the thought of divorce scares them, and maybe they have no place to go. I;m glad you did…at least you can put your past behind you and start living again…God bless you.

]]> Comment on My anecdote by The Sentinel http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/22/my-anecdote/#comment-5197 The Sentinel Sun, 26 Oct 2008 07:01:55 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/22/my-anecdote/#comment-5197 Epilogue: The wrinkles have appeared, the boobs are sagging and where there was once my fat bank account, I have not a single paise. I am old and my Son Arjun Sanghi and his siff are GAY donkeys. I am missing my money and my dirty son Arjun Sanghi Epilogue:
The wrinkles have appeared, the boobs are sagging and where there was once my fat bank account, I have not a single paise. I am old and my Son Arjun Sanghi and his siff are GAY donkeys. I am missing my money and my dirty son Arjun Sanghi

]]> Comment on Need Help by madhvi http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5015 madhvi Tue, 26 Aug 2008 11:36:28 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-5015 Dear Madam, My name is madhvi bhardwaj; i am 32 year old married female. I got married in 2002, and year 2003 my daughter was born. In July 2005, my husband was relocated to NJ (USA) on three year deputation from his company. My married life was not very good from the beginning there were some incidents of bad and abusive behavior from my husband but i did not took them very seriously thinking these are initial adjustment issues. When i was in India i was working with a computer firm as engineer, since the starting of our marriage - my husband always use to take away major part of my salary. Once we moved backed to US in July 2005, after 1 month time my husband behavior become more and ruder towards me, initially i had no work there as i was waiting for my work permit to come, so somehow i passed the time. After two months, i got a job offer which was work from home but was in night shift, i started the work, when i received my salary again this time my husband took it from me. He never supported me in any household or outside work and i was managing my work at night shifts along with my 1.5 yr old daughter during the day at that time. He use to drink heavily almost everyday after coming from office and he become more violent and abusive towards me without any apparent reason. I was addressed with bad mouth words, In 2006 situation become so badly that one day around mid night i ran away to my neighours house as he hit me and my daughter. I told him that i am going to inform police if he doesn’t change his conduct towards us. Then he kept quite. But I and my daughter were deprived of any basic amenities; we were confined to a room in the house. Finally, one day when he was in office i managed to escape from house with the help of my one of the old acquaintance (he also booked tickets for me for India as i had no money). When i reached airport along with my daughter my husband called and pleaded us to come back and promised not to behave badly with us. I trusted him and came back home - but only after few weeks the same violent episodes were repeated on ongoing basis with me. This went on till July 2007. Then as our 3 yrs tenure was coming to an end so i told him in need to go back to India to get admission of our daughter for formal schooling. On hearing that he bashed me on me, i was told if i want to go i have to pay for the tickets and he will not bear any expenses whatsoever. So finally with little money which i had saved hiding from him i used to purchase tickets for myself and my daughter. My daughter got admission in school and returned to US in Nov 5, 2007, though i we were suppose to go back to India again in the month of Feb as our visa was expiring on 28th Feb 2008. My husband forced me to sign papers for extension of visa (he was on L1 status and he wanted to go for further extension of 2 yrs), When i refused to do so, he thrashed me very badly and also threatened to snatch away my daughter from me. So i had to sign the papers, he took my salary and booked tickets of Canada for visa stamping. In feb , just one day before when we were suppose to go back to NJ after visa stamping , he came drunk heavily in the hotel room and pushed me on the bed and squashed my neck , he told me i am a prostitute and he told same to my child also. My daughter got very scared and she tried to save me and as a result she was also thrown on the floor. I got injury in my back and fracture in my left had finger as a result of his physical abuse, then i told him - if he don’t leave us i am going to call police right now , he got scared and left us also. We came back to NJ same day , just day after tomorrow i had a flight to India so i called my neighours and old acquaintance and asked them to help me because i had a confirmation that my husband he won't let us leave the country. Finally i managed to leave the country with my daughter. After i reached India it has been six months, my husband had not sent us even a single penny for me and my daughter any of the expenses. I filed a case here in India with women cell - initially i was told by his relatives (2 married sisters) that he will come back soon, but since then he is absconding , not responding , not sending any financial support for both of us. I am trying to get back my Jewellery which is in his locker (in India in his name) and his relatives are making fool around. For the past 6 years of marriage he had snatched away every single paisa i earned and now both I and my daughter are left like this. I don’t know what to do , i am self sufficient and self capable women but i have been thru a very rough ordeal and i feel cheated and i want to fight at least for the rights of my daughter. I don’t know if you can help me in anyway in this case, i don’t know how I force him to get back to India and pass thru the process of justice so that we can get our rights. Thanks Madhvi Bhardwaj Dear Madam,
My name is madhvi bhardwaj; i am 32 year old married female. I got married in 2002, and year 2003 my daughter was born. In July 2005, my husband was relocated to NJ (USA) on three year deputation from his company.
My married life was not very good from the beginning there were some incidents of bad and abusive behavior from my husband but i did not took them very seriously thinking these are initial adjustment issues.
When i was in India i was working with a computer firm as engineer, since the starting of our marriage – my husband always use to take away major part of my salary.
Once we moved backed to US in July 2005, after 1 month time my husband behavior become more and ruder towards me, initially i had no work there as i was waiting for my work permit to come, so somehow i passed the time. After two months, i got a job offer which was work from home but was in night shift, i started the work, when i received my salary again this time my husband took it from me. He never supported me in any household or outside work and i was managing my work at night shifts along with my 1.5 yr old daughter during the day at that time. He use to drink heavily almost everyday after coming from office and he become more violent and abusive towards me without any apparent reason. I was addressed with bad mouth words, In 2006 situation become so badly that one day around mid night i ran away to my neighours house as he hit me and my daughter. I told him that i am going to inform police if he doesn’t change his conduct towards us. Then he kept quite. But I and my daughter were deprived of any basic amenities; we were confined to a room in the house. Finally, one day when he was in office i managed to escape from house with the help of my one of the old acquaintance (he also booked tickets for me for India as i had no money). When i reached airport along with my daughter my husband called and pleaded us to come back and promised not to behave badly with us. I trusted him and came back home – but only after few weeks the same violent episodes were repeated on ongoing basis with me. This went on till July 2007. Then as our 3 yrs tenure was coming to an end so i told him in need to go back to India to get admission of our daughter for formal schooling. On hearing that he bashed me on me, i was told if i want to go i have to pay for the tickets and he will not bear any expenses whatsoever. So finally with little money which i had saved hiding from him i used to purchase tickets for myself and my daughter.
My daughter got admission in school and returned to US in Nov 5, 2007, though i we were suppose to go back to India again in the month of Feb as our visa was expiring on 28th Feb 2008. My husband forced me to sign papers for extension of visa (he was on L1 status and he wanted to go for further extension of 2 yrs), When i refused to do so, he thrashed me very badly and also threatened to snatch away my daughter from me. So i had to sign the papers, he took my salary and booked tickets of Canada for visa stamping.
In feb , just one day before when we were suppose to go back to NJ after visa stamping , he came drunk heavily in the hotel room and pushed me on the bed and squashed my neck , he told me i am a prostitute and he told same to my child also. My daughter got very scared and she tried to save me and as a result she was also thrown on the floor. I got injury in my back and fracture in my left had finger as a result of his physical abuse, then i told him – if he don’t leave us i am going to call police right now , he got scared and left us also.
We came back to NJ same day , just day after tomorrow i had a flight to India so i called my neighours and old acquaintance and asked them to help me because i had a confirmation that my husband he won’t let us leave the country. Finally i managed to leave the country with my daughter. After i reached India it has been six months, my husband had not sent us even a single penny for me and my daughter any of the expenses. I filed a case here in India with women cell – initially i was told by his relatives (2 married sisters) that he will come back soon, but since then he is absconding , not responding , not sending any financial support for both of us. I am trying to get back my Jewellery which is in his locker (in India in his name) and his relatives are making fool around. For the past 6 years of marriage he had snatched away every single paisa i earned and now both I and my daughter are left like this.
I don’t know what to do , i am self sufficient and self capable women but i have been thru a very rough ordeal and i feel cheated and i want to fight at least for the rights of my daughter. I don’t know if you can help me in anyway in this case, i don’t know how I force him to get back to India and pass thru the process of justice so that we can get our rights.

Thanks
Madhvi Bhardwaj

]]> Comment on Another Wife Beater Exposed by Tammie http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/20/another-wife-beater-exposed/#comment-4981 Tammie Mon, 18 Aug 2008 11:12:19 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/2006/11/20/another-wife-beater-exposed/#comment-4981 I see that these other postings are quite old. Alot of ppl say they stay cuz hey love him......... I went to college, had a great job... met this guy I thought was great. Loved all his tats, and his bad bot attitude. He was so not my type tho, at all. He wasnt good looking. he was too skinny, went to aa meetings, as well as na. Well, dummy me, thought I could help. Long story short, if its in the gutter, leave it. I was beaten, humiliated, and raped again and again. I hate to say it, but I have been sodomized. It was so bad, that I passed out the first time. This went on daily, I was convinced that I was watched by his family members daily on everything that I did. My phone calls were monitored........ (i WAS brainwashed).... my clothes picked out........... i can go on.......... I finally put this prick in jail..... if ur serious and wanna know wut to do.......... email me.... tgarwood1@hotmail.com I see that these other postings are quite old.
Alot of ppl say they stay cuz hey love him……… I went to college, had a great job… met this guy I thought was great. Loved all his tats, and his bad bot attitude. He was so not my type tho, at all. He wasnt good looking. he was too skinny, went to aa meetings, as well as na. Well, dummy me, thought I could help.
Long story short, if its in the gutter, leave it. I was beaten, humiliated, and raped again and again. I hate to say it, but I have been sodomized. It was so bad, that I passed out the first time. This went on daily, I was convinced that I was watched by his family members daily on everything that I did. My phone calls were monitored…….. (i WAS brainwashed)…. my clothes picked out……….. i can go on………. I finally put this prick in jail….. if ur serious and wanna know wut to do………. email me….

tgarwood1@hotmail.com

]]> Comment on Need Help by ruchika http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-4576 ruchika Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:55:43 +0000 http://togetherwebond.wordpress.com/help-line/#comment-4576 i am mentaly abused by my husband and in laws. they r now asking for my passport which i have not given. i am on H4 and donot have legal work permit here. situation is so bad for me that i will have to move out of my husbands house anytime. Can i get legal workpermit here? Please guide me how to approach for Legal seperation. i am mentaly abused by my husband and in laws. they r now asking for my passport which i have not given. i am on H4 and donot have legal work permit here. situation is so bad for me that i will have to move out of my husbands house anytime. Can i get legal workpermit here? Please guide me how to approach for Legal seperation.

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